You might be so used to sex with your partner that you could forget that things can get better, and in this case, we are referring to his orgasm. If you would like to knock his sock off and show him a whole new level of pleasure, take a peek at these tips below;
1. Give him a night off: Most men enjoy pleasing women and they focus so much time and attention making sure the sex is good for you. But, if you want him to really have a good time, give him a time off. Convince him that this sex session is all about his pleasure. One effective way to do this is to take the choice from him. You can restrain him while you take your time and slowly bring him to orgasmic bliss.
2. Hold back: Abstinence is the world's most powerful aphrodisiac. While everyday sex is great, what is even greater is waiting a few days or weeks and then dedicating a night to really good loving. While taking this break from sex, make sure you tease him continiously. Flash sexy body parts, send suggestive text messages, etc, to up the anticipation quota.
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3. Intercept him at the finish line: The longer the foreplay, the better the orgasm, even for men. The trick for you is to help your partner set aside his need to climax by making the sex last as long as you can. Stopping for an occasional cooling-off period works beautifully, but takes discipline. The woman-on-top position is useful because it helps the man restrain his urge to start thrusting.
4. Quickie: There is something hot and exciting about a quick and lustful coupling. It can produce a climax that's every bit as explosive as a marathon session in the sack. So, take the initiative, attack your partner as soon as he walks in the door. No ceremony, no extras. Just straight up lovemaking.
5. Surprise him: The same idea behind the quickie works here too. Approach him when he leasts expects it. Spontaneity can help bring him to his senses. A good time to try this is on a weekend morning. That's usually when men are most relaxed and their testosterone levels are at their peak.
6. Go straight to the point: When a man is climaxing, only one body part is important to him at the time - his penis. It needs to be stimulated as well as possible. This is why men love the rear entry (doggie style) position. There is more friction and depth with this. Also, the vaginal squeeze can work wonders. Clenching yourself around him when he is on the brink will drive him over the edge.
7. Find other focus: Most men have other erogenous zones. It could be the nipples, the testicles or even, as one man revealed, sucking on his fingers. Experts also recommend massaging the point between the testicles and anus—called the perineum—at the point of orgasm.
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SOURCE: Pulse
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